“But the souls of the upright are in the hands of God and no torment can touch them.” We are celebrating your life Mama, for indeed you have run the race to the finish. Yet news of your passing on to meet Papa was a shock to me. Why it seems but yesterday that you were so active and doing so much! You were a woman of great faith, and in that light you surpassed so many in the much you did, yet in such a self-effacing manner. Where, in fact, can I begin? Is it with recalling the countless Sundays you surprised our community with those deliciously prepared dishes, punctuated with chewables like plantain-chips, chin-chins, etc.? Those were Sundays that gave the cooks a free day and as the big-hearted Mama that you were; freedom from the kitchen extended to the next day for the quantity was always more than could be finished in one day, regardless of our big number.
We cannot forget the morning you and Papa arrived to join us at our 6:30 Mass. It was only at the end of that Mass, when you requested a special blessing that we learned it was actually the 50th anniversary of your wedding. Only then did we remember the painful incident that had taken place shortly before that anniversary! Yet your faith which stood tall and invincible in facing that event was a clear indication to all that your belief in God went beyond his consolations. Numberless other trips to the Dominican monastery in Bambui, brought you to purchase candles twice a year (Christmas and Easter) as a gift to all the Bishops of Cameroon, but hidden underneath that of course, was yours and Papa’s desire to support the nuns financially.
Oh, as the song says, ‘time changes many things! Years went by and soon you were not able to make those trips anymore and I saw you only when I was in town and called in to greet you. On those occasions, you would make every effort to personally attend to me, even when sickness, coupled age were beginning to slow down your steps. Before I knew it you would be putting a plastic filled with chips, chin-chins and the like for the sisters I would meet back home. Thank you Mama for the witness of your life among us who had the privilege to know the treasure you were. We loved and still love you but just like he came for Papa some years back, the Lord has seen your heavy steps struggling to climb the steep hills of life and has lifted you to Himself. Goodbye Mama! We pray that your gentle soul will rest in the peace of the Lord! Do give my greetings to Papa but do not forget to join him to whisper in the ears of the Lord, the needs of your children still trapped in this valley of tears. Rest in peace till we meet to part no more!
Your daughter in the Lord,
Sr. Therese Claire Lum
Dominican Monastery- Bambui
Tribute from Legion of Mary